Child Issues by Age Traveling with Toddlers
For younger children it’s all about routines. If things don’t happen the same way everyday, they may grow anxious or fearful. Try to keep their activities as similar as possible. For example, schedule meals at the same time everyday or if they attend karate lessons try to locate somewhere they can continue to take lessons. Here are some suggestions of things you can do to help them become better accustomed to the idea of the upcoming move:
Try your best to get them to relay how they are feeling or give them a job to do, such as boxing up their toys.
Do not pack up their favorite blanket or teddy bear! These items are their security objects and will comfort them when they arrive somewhere unfamiliar.
Let them be creative and color over the cardboard boxes.
Give them a character to relate to. There are many children’s books related to moving to a new home such as, Who Will Be My Friends?
Let them pick out colors and decorations for their new room. This will allow them feel as though they have a role in the process and can be excited about the move.
When younger children hear they will be moving they begin to fear that they will be left behind. Reassure them that they are coming with you, to eliminate any of their insecurities.
If they show signs of withdrawal, talk to them or let their new teacher know so he or she can help. If the situation worsens, locate a counselor for your child who has experience dealing with similar issues.
